The woman’s feminine side is one of the strongest tools the woman has to adapt in changing social environments, so that she might survive with her offspring by imitating and pleasing her surroundings.
The feminine use of feelings is powerful, yet elusive if commanded by the woman’s desires and impulses.
The woman’s emotional state therefore is not sustainable unless placed in an environment with a constant and dominating male narrative.
But the strength of the feminine can also be its strongest weakness.
She can be swayed by her longing and burning desire to feel through the idea of love or adventure. Within a very short timeframe, she can adopt a completely new paradigm and turn against her own environment if her feelings are stirred by another and greater emotional influence.
Women and beliefs
Men and women are different. You are not allowed to say it, but that’s the way it is.
Since the woman is predominantly driven by the feminine, she is, as a consequence, more feminine in her way of thinking, feeling and acting.
Compared to the masculine, the feminine seems to be a social construct which is like an empty container with no opinion or identity in itself. In order to fit in and receive protection and resources, the feminine adopts the paradigm and opinions of its social and cultural environment.
It tries to fulfill the expectations which it faces. In other words, the feminine is a chameleon changing its colors to match the social environment it is in, for its own benefit (survival).
This makes the woman opportunistic by nature.
As a consequence the woman generally does not form true beliefs as much as she creates ideas in her head, derived by the opinions of her friends and family. Now, due to the woman’s ability and willingness to argue, these ideas might seem like true beliefs the first time you hear them, whether she is throwing arguments for you to take her on a weekend trip to Paris, move the kitchen five inches into the living room or throw out some of your stuff.
Most of these ideas she might just as well have adopted by listening to her friends or reading women’s magazines, rather than formed by her own opinion.
Still, these ‘ad hoc’ beliefs are really nothing but ideas supported by a vast ocean of feelings. Since the woman’s feelings change all the time, her feelings about that particular idea will change as well.
Her idea will change a day from now, maybe even just an hour or in five minutes. And when her emotions do not support her idea no more, it simply dies out.
Much of the woman’s interests and ‘beliefs’ as a woman and as a mother are already predestined and laid out for her as she goes through her different phases in life
- Adolescence
- Puberty
- Motherhood
- menopause
Education
The modern woman is proud of her college degree. She sees herself as independent and superior to men who does not have one. When looking for a partner, she often makes it a requirement that he is equally or higher educated than her.
However, the modern woman seems to have misunderstood the real meaning of a college degree, which to men is an admission ticket to further excel in their profession.
Instead the woman goes to college because she follows the collective mentality, which tells her to go to college and enjoy the college experience.
The current school system is optimally suited for the obedient and agreeable young woman who enjoys working in groups and sits in silence with her head bent over books.
The school system also provides a framework for the woman to work within. She does not have to define the framework herself and finds comfort or even security in a predefined environment. This is also one of the major reasons why the woman chooses to work in the public sector.
Though the safe way to a college degree is to obey and follow the path made by the system, it is also the sure way to an average performance. Yet, since the women is not expected to excel in her profession (unless she wants to become CEO) like the man is, she can (and does) ignore the fact that following the masses leads to less than extraordinary results.
In other words: the woman follows the group. As a result her collective thinking and need for security will hardly spark the inventions of tomorrow, but rather a position of safety within the anonymity of the collective.
Work
We are told all the time how the woman is a great asset – or even greater than the man – at the workplace. The woman tells us that her contribution is worth just as much and she works just as hard and long as the man.
Also the endless mantra from feminists goes that if we would just ‘allow’ more women in board rooms, the bottom line of these companies would benefit from the woman’s perspective.
As previously stated the woman chooses an education on an average level and often based on a social premise such as social worker or teacher.
The woman does not generally like the notion of ‘breaking the rules’ and therefore does not challenge conventions and prefers the comfort and support from existing structures and environments.
She is not minded on excellence or groundbreaking outcomes but chooses her work from social relations, working conditions and flexibility to care for her children.
When the modern feminist tries to make the man do half of the mothering intended for her by biology, so she can experience having a ‘career’, society loses. A cost benefit analysis would show that since men contribute far more to society through work and taxation, it would have more value for both genders, if men were excelling in their education and in their profession.
However, feminists do not care about what benefits society, or men, or even children. They only have eyes for placing women in positions which represents masculine power – meaning positions as corporate CEOs, board room members and ministers in the political environment.
Politics
Since women seek security and resources from the collective, they are prone, by nature to vote for the left.
There is a paradox in the way women in one aspect consume more welfare benefits than men (making them net consumers in the modern welfare society) while also expecting to be paid the same as men (who are net contributors to the welfare society) even though they choose jobs that pay less.
Still women talk about a wage gap, which is primarily caused by their own choice of profession in the public sector – which is dependent on financing from the male dominated sectors of production and shipping in the first place.
If a woman chose a profession as an engineer and put in an equal amount of hours, she would be reducing the ‘wage gap’. Yet women have social and maternal preferences which lie outside of their careers and so, you could say that an overall lower wage is the price they pay for wanting other things.
You cannot have it all.
Another aspect is women’s blindness to the welfare benefits – payed through taxes by primarily men – which they consume, and which should be added to the female wage to give a more precise image of the so-called wage gap.
Since the woman also has her empathetic nature towards immigration, the vast number of supporters is found to the left on the political spectrum.
A paradox exists in the way the woman has a deep need for security and at the same time invites foreigners into her country, of whom she does not know anything about – nor do they share her history, culture or religion.
All which matters to her, is that they have been declared to be refugees.
When the woman goes on dates, she is advised to be careful. She understands that a good relationship comes from mutual values surrounding the fundamental elements in a relationship. Yet on matters on immigration she ignores the necessary screening of those same mutual values which has to match to create a safe, democratic and trust-based society for herself and her children to live in.
The woman has no culture or history in assessing the far reaching consequences of letting people you do not know into your home. It has always been the man’s responsibility to fight and protect the woman and her children.
Yet with feminism, the emotional woman has been given the authority to overrule the man’s protective nature of his tribe through her political vote.
The problem is that the woman does not have the self-awareness or knowledge to really understand the importance of her political power or the great responsibility to protect her country and culture, which feminism has granted her.
Her ‘beliefs’ on multiculturalism would not prevail if she was to analyze them with reason and logic as to her own needs and interests as a woman and protective mother.
Consumption
According to girlpowermarketing (an all-female marketing agency) women account for 85 percent of all consumer purchases. Furthermore they will control two-thirds of consumer wealth in the United States.
It is in a woman’s nature to seek out security and resources from others and spend it on herself and her children. As a result women spend their own money, their man’s money and money from taxpayers through welfare benefits, where women are the main beneficiaries – primarily as single mothers.
Her natural urge is something which our modern consumer society has found a very profitable
The modern feminist society has turned focus away from science, production, frugality and responsibility and instead towards debt, consumption and emotional spending.
The woman is primarily emotionally driven in her consumption. If she was rational and oriented towards her needs, she would not buy so many shoes; she would not go on holidays she could not afford.
The woman’s consumption pattern is affected by her environment.
Magazines are major influencers with their articles about
- the preferences of celebrities
- the perfect home
- the perfect mother
- the perfect job
- the perfect husband
- the perfect skin
- the perfect body
- the perfect mascara foundation
- etc.
Not to mention quizzes to remind the woman how much she fails to live up to the portrayed images. Magazines skew the woman’s world view more than any other influencer due to their agenda with pleasing advertisers and keeping up the female desire for perfection.
Since the woman is socially predominantly driven by the feminine, which is a social construct of its surroundings, girlfriends have the greatest influence on the woman’s views and ‘beliefs’ about herself, her motherhood, her relationship and on the world as a whole.
The woman’s materialistic cravings have her treating several elements in her life as objects and status symbols the equivalent of a hand bag.
Many women go to college because of the experience (like going travelling), the college degree becomes an accessory to establish the woman as capable and independent.
Of course, nothing spells success more than becoming the perfect mother to the perfect children with the perfect man in the perfect family.
For this, the man is more an object of the woman’s princess fantasies, more than he represents a human being with his own hopes, dreams, feelings, wants and needs.
He eventually becomes a helper to assist the woman in her ‘belief’ that her life can be perfect.
Relationship – girlfriend/wife
As a girlfriend – if the woman is interested in her boyfriend – she will try to make to make the man commit to their relationship through marriage to achieve a feeling of social and financial security.
Her need for security will be an unconscious driver in her relationship and will collide with her feminist imperative if she actually achieves that amount of security. As a paradox many women seek excitement in their relationship. If the man is not impulsive or assertive enough, the woman might start become bored or start to doubt the strength in her man. She then may initiate a confrontation to spark the tension between them.
The woman seeks security but often also creates confrontation. She also has her feminist imperative telling her to be independent and keep her options open, and never settle for anything less than perfect.
The woman’s emotions shine through all her roles, relations and functions. In relationships with other people the woman’s emotional side and her physical build provides her with a role which takes on more social and less dangerous tasks than given to the man. Otherwise, her emotional side simply has her choosing a path more emotional related.
It is important to note that the modern woman is often unconsciously fighting her wants and her needs – her intellectual feminist idealistic image of what and who she wants to be, and her biology – her female nature.
For instance her wants, her intellectual feminist ideals, tells her to have a career, while her biology tells her to have a child.
Since many women are unclarified of this internal struggle, men must be aware of it, so that they will not be caught compromising themselves and their integrity by acting on the woman’s expressed wishes, even when her wishes will eventually prove to work against the fundamental interests of them both.
For instance, the woman may consciously want a man to make her the center of his life and spend as much time as possible with her. Yet unconsciously, she needs him to be leading the relationship instead of following her emotional whims.
In any ‘romantic’ relationship, whether the man is a boyfriend or a husband, the worst thing a man can do is make the woman the center of his universe.
Mother
The moment a woman becomes a mother, her emotional priorities turns from the man, who has so far been her most intimate relation, and onto her child.
This can make the man wonder where his woman went and where he fits into the relationship, now that his woman only seems to have an eye for her child.
Nature never intended for the intellectual romanticist culture which permeates modern culture. Instead nature changes her hormonal foundation to turn her into a mother.
- The woman’s hormonal flow changes
- Her brain structure changes
- Activity increases in regions of the brain which controls e.g. empathy and anxiety
The woman is subject to a massive hormonal influence which attracts her to her newborn child with love and worry due to her urge to protect it.
Women are themselves often surprised to find this ‘new side’ of themselves, which biology has prepared for them in the form of a blueprint, for a mothering behavior in the brain, even before she had children.
In essence, you might say that the man is right in thinking that he has lost his woman. His woman’s ‘software’ has been biologically altered for her new role as a mother. Her attention has turned from him and onto his offspring. He is no longer her main priority and may find that she now treats him more as a ‘colleague’ or assistant who is expected to support her and her baby.
Despite her biological setup, modern women are increasingly harming their own children through their feminist lifestyle.
The amount of children living in single parent units is increasing and the single parent holding main custody is a woman.
Feminism granted the woman to pursue her own desire for Mr. right and having children on her own terms. Only nobody provided her with an awareness of herself and a sense of responsibility for the freedom she exercise when she has children with the man who turns out not to be perfect anyway – and the relationship ends.
No one holds the woman accountable for the human consequences of her failed fantasies and relations with men. The children of modern women too often end up paying the price. And women seem to ignore this fact because it does not correlate with their self-image as good mothers.
Citizen
I have read a series of blogposts on a website of a Danish national media outlet (yes, I am Danish). The author is a middle-aged woman; she is a reporter by profession – and a mother of 7 children, with two different fathers. By feminist standards she is a strong and independent modern woman.
As a reporter she has the whole world to report on to her readers. However, as a woman’s nature dictates, she has her focus on her close environment. Feminists would love to have her represent women in the STEM field, but if women were really ‘equal’ to men, they would seek out professions in the productive industry and eliminate the infamous wage gap between men and women in the workplace.
Instead of fulfilling the feminist agenda, this woman does not have an interest in Engineering or IT. She is driven towards subject areas which deal with emotions. And through her profession she ignores the rest of the world to focus on what matters most to her: herself, her dating life and her own children.
As a citizen the woman have been granted the same rights as men, still there is a difference in how the emotional women administer her rights compared to the rational man.
With feminism the woman has acquired the same authority in society as the man, you should be very aware of that very difference and where it may take society.
In my opinion, there was a discussion which never took place when feminism started unravelling: the responsibility and expectations which the man had to meet in is position in society.
With feminism the woman entered his domain and acquired his rights without knowing or understanding the responsibility and expectations which has been placed on this role.
Religion
As a social construct the feminine is able to fluctuate in almost every area, including sexuality and religion. The only parameter that seems to control the woman more than her fluid nature is her biological urge to have children, an urge which the woman herself does not understand or is able to rationally explain or suppress.
When a woman says that she believes in God, she most likely does not mean that she has reached her belief through philosophically weighing one argument against another or used math or questioned the laws of physics to reach her belief. She believes because it feels right.
She probably did not acquire her belief on her own, but rather due to friends or family (social environment) sharing the same belief and she adopts the common paradigm to fit in.
Sexuality
Even sexually, I think the woman through her feminine nature can morph from heterosexual to at least bisexual if she stays in an environment which encourages and supports this transformation. In a new environment the feminine will adapt to the new emotional and social climate where homosexuality may be present and accepted – or perhaps even celebrated. (Again, the feminine changes color to match its environment)
The woman loves the idea of rights but does not understand the responsibilities which follow.
In sexual relations with men, the woman’s wants are her first priority and she will manipulate the man through her sexuality, if necessary.
The woman is able to make the man pay for her night out by appealing to either his expected role as a gentleman (who pays for the woman) or to lead him on thinking that she is interested in him sexually until her drinks have been paid.
The woman will even go as far as to lie to a man about using birth control to get pregnant. She then has the power to decide whether the man is going to be father or not, if he is going to be involved in raising the baby, or if he will be paying child support for the next 18 years of his life.
In a relationship sex is used as a commodity or a means of punishment, if the man displeases her.
Through her sexuality the woman has a lot of power, which was previously balanced out with the man’s position and influence in society and over the woman. Now the woman has become superior with the same rights as the man AND with her sexuality to either tempt him into submission or punish him for not doing so.
But what happened to her responsibility?